How would you manage a situation where a family member or close friend made a sexist, racist, or prejudiced comment in your presence?

I’m unfortunately familiar with how to handle insensitive comments from those I love, as I’ve dealt with my grandfather’s prejudices. Though I recognize that older generations’ generalizations were bred in a world of segregation, I still believe it is my responsibility to set an example and intervene. In several instances, my grandfather has told stories at the dinner table that were racist in manner and did not make me feel comfortable. Without raising my voice or attacking his character, I explained to him why these comments aren’t acceptable and how stereotyping can prove dangerous. Though stereotyping a group may seem harmless at first, creating an “us versus them” dynamic can create tensions, prejudices, and eventual discrimination. Confronting the people we love most can be challenging, but standing up for what I believe in is important. Making sure to address these comments when they happen is what will propel positive change.